How to Kiss Your Girlfriend?

By: Arpan Mondal on 01:55

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Do you finally want to kiss your girlfriend? Well, a quick overview of where to start is on the way.

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   Make sure both of you are comfortable with the prospect of kissing each other. Some girls are very attracted to the idea of kissing, and some simply are not. You must first find out her opinion of the idea... If a girl is not willing to kiss you, the best idea is to respect her wishes and let things lie for a while. Consider asking friends of hers whether she has ever mentioned wanting to kiss you or if they personally think that she would be open to the idea as they probably hear her talk about you more. It is also then best to let her try to kiss you first, since you obviously are ready. Her kiss will be the indication of less tense behavior.
   
   

   

   • If you joke around a lot, then it may be appropriate to ask her outright. Laugh as you say whatever you are planning to say. If you are still a bit nervous about the kiss, be prepared to say 'Oh, I was just joking, you're special to me whether our relationship is physical or not,' or something similar. You don't necessarily have to say the last bit, but it'll make her feel special in her own way.
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   Remember, location is key. If it is her first kiss, she may want it to be somewhere with sentimental value or have some other preference to where she kisses you. Some ideas include:
   
   

   

   • Go back to the first place you went out. This will add some romance that you both can share before your kiss.
   • Take her to a totally new place to be in is a perfect opportunity. The new place has to be everything that both of you are comfortable with. If she doesn't like to be too crowded but you like to be around people, take her to a mall where people are always passing by, but they are spread out, not crowding you, and don't necessarily get too close. Be prepared to accept whatever she says as it may be more special to her. It is better if you are alone then kiss would seem more special.
   • If she has a performance or special occasion, after she performs this would be a great moment. If she does, just go for the kiss and make it a special one. Let her push you away if she has to.
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   Kiss Her! When you do, remember not to purse your lips too hard. This would be a different kiss. Wait until both of your lips are almost touching, then close your eyes and go in for the kiss... but not too strong most girls hate it when you push hard on them (unless they like to play rough).
   
   

   

   • Don't have your hands all over the place, be appropriate with where you put them. If you touch her inappropriately, she'll back off or push you away. During a first kiss, she won't be jumpy or too eager to be too touchy.